"Men aren’t stupid, and you don’t need a complicated set of rules to find a good one who loves you. Here’s the only rule you need: if a man loves you, he will do anything he can to keep you around. Anything."
Kim Gruenenfelder, A Total Waste of Makeup (via knoticals)
do you guys ever make up stuff in your head because you and a certain person have been lacking proper communication? those times where you start to get sad or upset because of xyz — but it’s unfair to them because you haven’t even given them a chance to discuss or explain what went down.. lol, yeah, it happens with me all the time and I don’t seem to realize how much I was overreacting until we finally sit down and talk. this doesn’t happen often, but when it does I’m always the one with so much to say and the other person is so flustered because they didn’t see it coming at all. and then I always feel so bad. it’s not a good attribute to have and I really want to work on it.
"There are two types of waiting. There’s the the waiting you do for something you know is coming, sooner or later—like waiting for the 6:28 train, or the school bus, or a party where a certain handsome boy might be. And then there’s the waiting for something you don’t know is coming. You don’t even know what it is exactly, but you’re hoping for it. You’re imagining it and living your life for it. That’s the kind of waiting that makes a fist in your heart."
I’m so happy you guys. It’s so hard to focus on anything. My body is in lecture but my mind is just floating through space and time.
"You’re so careful not to touch
me now - not my heart, not my
skin, not my hope. When we
talk I can read the silent rejection
letters: Dear Miss, we regret to
inform you that your affection
cannot be accepted at this time.
Maybe you think you’re being
kind by not leading me on, but
our friendship was built on caring
for each other long before I had
feelings for you, so while you’re
trying to push me away as a
crush, you’re also pushing me
away as a friend."